My Mum- Spanked by the Builders?

[Moonraker6]

I've moved this from the 'Spanking-related Discussion' section:

Back in the late 1970s, when I'd have been about 10-years-old, my parents employed a trio of workmen to build an extension on the house. I've no idea what their names were, so we'll call them Tom, Dick and Harry! Much of this work was done during the school summer holidays. It was quite disruptive from what I can remember, but never mind.

I can clearly recall my Mum taking a tray of cold drinks out to the builders (presumably for one of their many breaks!) and one of them, almost certainly Harry, said, "Don't spill any or I'll put you across my knee!" I thought my mother (Margaret) was unamused, although the other two workmen ('Tom' and 'Dick') found it very funny!

The following day (or the day after that, I can't quite remember and it doesn't really matter), there was an almost identical moment when my Mum, again carrying a tray of drinks out to the builders, was told by Harry, "Hurry up with those drinks, Margaret, or I'll smack your bare bottom!"

As far as I know, my Mum never told my father any of this but she did confide in our next-door neighbour. But when she told this woman that Harry had threatened to spank her bare bottom, the neighbour (who apparently knew him) laughed and remarked, "Oh, he's always saying things like that!" My Mum seemed unconvinced. "I'm not joking! He really meant it. That he'd spank my bare bottom!" If my Mum was expecting any sympathy from this other woman then she didn't get it. The neighbour laughed again and said, "Well, you'll have to be careful then, won't you?" So much for the sisterhood!

My Mum later told this woman that she was dreading the end of the summer holidays and the kids going back to school (the opposite of how she and most Mums usually felt by then!) because she would be alone with the builders and feared they (or, at least, Harry) would spank her bare bottom.

Yet, despite all this, my Mum seemed to have a reasonably good relationship with the builders – even though she constantly moaned about them and the disruption they were causing. I can remember her sometimes sitting at the patio table with them, laughing and joking. On one of those occasions, as she walked back indoors carrying the drinks tray, Harry – I think – may have slapped her on the backside. His hand came down just as they disappeared through the back door. Unfortunately, I didn't see it but I definitely heard what sounded like a slap!

 

[ajw]

Harry's kind of an asshole. But it's pretty clear what he wants.

If your mom was really afraid, she would have told your dad. So maybe she was a little conflicted. Not wanting the spanking, but not exactly avoiding attention.

Did this have an effect on your arrival at this outpost of inappropriate spanking?

 

[Moonraker6]

As I wrote on the other thread before I moved it to this section: I committed a lot of this to paper some 10-15 years ago and then actually forgot about it. Then a few weeks back, a group of builders started working on the house down the road and it brought back all these old memories!

But my Mum certainly had a strange relationship with these men. On one occasion, I think the builders were enjoying their tea break at the patio table whilst studying a rude magazine! My Mum was intrigued but when they asked her if she wanted a closer look, she threw an anxious glance at me and said quietly, "Maybe later." They left the magazine on the table when they went back to work and I caught a quick glimpse of the cover. It featured a bare-bottomed woman sat on a football – maybe it was around World Cup time? In fact, a while back I found a website that displayed every single cover of 'Mayfair' magazine ever published – and sure enough, there was the one I remembered. It was dated June 1978, so the timing would be about right. There are several second-hand copies of this particular issue on eBay and I'm sorely tempted to buy one – if only to see exactly what naughty pictures my Mum and the builders were looking at!

 

[ajw]

As I wrote on the other thread before I moved it to this section: I committed a lot of this to paper some 10-15 years ago and then actually forgot about it. Then a few weeks back, a group of builders started working on the house down the road and it brought back all these old memories!

But my Mum certainly had a strange relationship with these men. On one occasion, I think the builders were enjoying their tea break at the patio table whilst studying a rude magazine! My Mum was intrigued but when they asked her if she wanted a closer look, she threw an anxious glance at me and said quietly, "Maybe later." They left the magazine on the table when they went back to work and I caught a quick glimpse of the cover. It featured a bare-bottomed woman sat on a football – maybe it was around World Cup time? In fact, a while back I found a website that displayed every single cover of 'Mayfair' magazine ever published – and sure enough, there was the one I remembered. It was dated June 1978, so the timing would be about right. There are several second-hand copies of this particular issue on eBay and I'm sorely tempted to buy one – if only to see exactly what naughty pictures my Mum and the builders were looking at!

Great stuff. What's in all those pages? What kept you writing?

 

[ted Rodgers 57]

I've moved this from the 'Spanking-related Discussion' section:

Back in the late 1970s, when I'd have been about 10-years-old, my parents employed a trio of workmen to build an extension on the house. I've no idea what their names were, so we'll call them Tom, Dick and Harry! Much of this work was done during the school summer holidays. It was quite disruptive from what I can remember, but never mind.

I can clearly recall my Mum taking a tray of cold drinks out to the builders (presumably for one of their many breaks!) and one of them, almost certainly Harry, said, "Don't spill any or I'll put you across my knee!" I thought my mother (Margaret) was unamused, although the other two workmen ('Tom' and 'Dick') found it very funny!

The following day (or the day after that, I can't quite remember and it doesn't really matter), there was an almost identical moment when my Mum, again carrying a tray of drinks out to the builders, was told by Harry, "Hurry up with those drinks, Margaret, or I'll smack your bare bottom!"

As far as I know, my Mum never told my father any of this but she did confide in our next-door neighbour. But when she told this woman that Harry had threatened to spank her bare bottom, the neighbour (who apparently knew him) laughed and remarked, "Oh, he's always saying things like that!" My Mum seemed unconvinced. "I'm not joking! He really meant it. That he'd spank my bare bottom!" If my Mum was expecting any sympathy from this other woman then she didn't get it. The neighbour laughed again and said, "Well, you'll have to be careful then, won't you?" So much for the sisterhood!

My Mum later told this woman that she was dreading the end of the summer holidays and the kids going back to school (the opposite of how she and most Mums usually felt by then!) because she would be alone with the builders and feared they (or, at least, Harry) would spank her bare bottom.

Yet, despite all this, my Mum seemed to have a reasonably good relationship with the builders – even though she constantly moaned about them and the disruption they were causing. I can remember her sometimes sitting at the patio table with them, laughing and joking. On one of those occasions, as she walked back indoors carrying the drinks tray, Harry – I think – may have slapped her on the backside. His hand came down just as they disappeared through the back door. Unfortunately, I didn't see it but I definitely heard what sounded like a slap!

maybe your mother had similar desires and need to my wife tracy
my wife also loves to be under the control of a older dominant man and she especially likes the thought they are from a different background or culture and they will impose their values and belief in how a woman should behave and how she should be treated if she doesn't and they will take no nonsense from her

and they would bare her bottom and take her across their lap and soundly spank her all while scolding her for her unacceptable behavior ,and if this was to happen while others were present it would be a dream come true

she had a very liberal almost spoilt upbringing
dad left and mum over compensated

so a strict daddie figure is what she craved and that became a strong sexual motif in her early teen years fired up in part by the old newsagent she worked for who threaten to take her pants down and smack her arse if she didn't buck her ideas up ive posted about elsewhere on the site

so the thought of someone older rough strict and with a different viewpoint dealing with her bare pampered married bottom is a instant pantie puddle and turn on for her

it sounds like this and plausible denial ie i didnt want him to smack my bare bum ,he made me let him do it
maybe this played into it and was was your mums main drivers for acting this way and hoping it would happen instead of embracing her desires and feeling guilty about letting him take her knickers down and smack her bum

 

[ted Rodgers 57]

please dont take this the wrong way we are all sexual beings after all

but it occurs to me that perhaps there was some prior contact between your mum and the builder

perhaps when she was a teeager or at school and she'd had a smacked bare bottom at school or from her parents or shopkeeper etc as a punishment that was common knowledge

or the builder had prior knowledge of your mum and that she had had her bare bottom smacked as sexual foreplay in the past

and it was his way teasing her or maybe just chancing his arm that she would weaken and let him slap her bum

or they had dated previously and he,d slapped her bum before

it seems very specific that it was "bare bottom" that her referred to like it was a buzz word she would respond to

the fact she mentioned it to her neighbor could be to self embarrass herself and arouse her by putting the scenario in both their minds of her getting a smacked bare bum off the rough builder

or the plausible denial to the neighbour before the event that she doesn't want him to smack her bum

rather than it exciting her and it happens and word got out as he doesn't strike me as the type to keep it to himself lol

either way it seems to have had a very strong effect on both of you and a very entertaining though for many of us

 

[ajw]

maybe your mother had similar desires and need to my wife tracy
my wife also loves to be under the control of a older dominant man and she especially likes the thought they are from a different background or culture and they will impose their values and belief in how a woman should behave and how she should be treated if she doesn't and they will take no nonsense from her

and they would bare her bottom and take her across their lap and soundly spank her all while scolding her for her unacceptable behavior ,and if this was to happen while others were present it would be a dream come true

she had a very liberal almost spoilt upbringing
dad left and mum over compensated

so a strict daddie figure is what she craved and that became a strong sexual motif in her early teen years fired up in part by the old newsagent she worked for who threaten to take her pants down and smack her arse if she didn't buck her ideas up ive posted about elsewhere on the site

so the thought of someone older rough strict and with a different viewpoint dealing with her bare pampered married bottom is a instant pantie puddle and turn on for her

it sounds like this and plausible denial ie i didnt want him to smack my bare bum ,he made me let him do it
maybe this played into it and was was your mums main drivers for acting this way and hoping it would happen instead of embracing her desires and feeling guilty about letting him take her knickers down and smack her bum

On your point about a strict man from another culture, there must be some posh totties in the UK with dark thoughts about a Middle Eastern father-in-law and his short, stingy strap.

 

[Moonraker6]

please dont take this the wrong way we are all sexual beings after all

but it occurs to me that perhaps there was some prior contact between your mum and the builder

perhaps when she was a teeager or at school and she'd had a smacked bare bottom at school or from her parents or shopkeeper etc as a punishment that was common knowledge

or the builder had prior knowledge of your mum and that she had had her bare bottom smacked as sexual foreplay in the past

and it was his way teasing her or maybe just chancing his arm that she would weaken and let him slap her bum

or they had dated previously and he,d slapped her bum before

it seems very specific that it was "bare bottom" that her referred to like it was a buzz word she would respond to

the fact she mentioned it to her neighbor could be to self embarrass herself and arouse her by putting the scenario in both their minds of her getting a smacked bare bum off the rough builder

or the plausible denial to the neighbour before the event that she doesn't want him to smack her bum

rather than it exciting her and it happens and word got out as he doesn't strike me as the type to keep it to himself lol

either way it seems to have had a very strong effect on both of you and a very entertaining though for many of us

I'm not aware that my Mum had any prior contact with Harry. However, one of her closest friends, Pam (who lived in a neighbouring village), did. Her husband was also a builder, albeit more of a foreman, and almost certainly employed, or rather sub-contracted, these three men at some time in the past. I hadn't really considered the implications of that until I read your post. Pam's son, Dean, who I often played with (he was a year younger than me) recalled his mother saying to him, "I think we'll have to smack Auntie Margaret's bottom!" This presumably was said in jest and such comments were not, I think, uncommon during this period. The comment in itself, is hardly a smoking gun, but does create a link, albeit a rather tenuous one!

Anyway, my Mum did (apparently) try to push back on these comments from the builders with, as we shall see in my next post, unfortunate results…

 

[ted Rodgers 57]

I'm not aware that my Mum had any prior contact with Harry. However, one of her closest friends, Pam (who lived in a neighbouring village), did. Her husband was also a builder, albeit more of a foreman, and almost certainly employed, or rather sub-contracted, these three men at some time in the past. I hadn't really considered the implications of that until I read your post. Pam's son, Dean, who I often played with (he was a year younger than me) recalled his mother saying to him, "I think we'll have to smack Auntie Margaret's bottom!" This presumably was said in jest and such comments were not, I think, uncommon during this period. The comment in itself, is hardly a smoking gun, but does create a link, albeit a rather tenuous one!

Anyway, my Mum did (apparently) try to push back on these comments from the builders with, as we shall see in my next post, unfortunate results…

sounds super interesting and intriguing i especially love the seemingly casual reference to "I think we'll have to smack Auntie Margaret's bottom!"

the fact it was so openly said in front of the family im assuming with the auntie part and not just the adults is super interesting

cant wait to hear the rest of the story

would love a bit of background age personality and description of all the relevant players

and yes smacked bottoms were discussed or threatened as a deterrent quite often back then

i wonder what effect hearing these remarks about your mum by his mum had on your friend then and now