Personal Dislikes

[TruBlu]

We all have our personal likes and dislikes and much like all things it is a matter of taste. Our specific little niche is full of many studios, genres and plots, from the domestically real to total fantasy. But a coupleof scenarios really jar witth me..Adult babies and diapering i cannot stand, and similarly performers that irk me greatly are Kyle ( suspect im not alone here) and the much loved Pandora Blake who really jars on me.
Please feel free to post your pet hates.

 

[theradion]

Oh... where do I even begin...?
1. Anything unrealistic. Bad story lines, preposterous positions, bad acting, bad dialogue.
2. Inconsistencies. If the idea is that it'll be a disciplinary spanking (especially if it's a parental scene), then for fuck's sake don't end up grabbing her ass, fondling her or zooming on her vagina!
3. Combining spanking with other activities. I'm a purist, so other aspects of BDSM leave me cold, some of them disgust me.
4. Fake spankings and those that are too mild but are advertised as "severe", "extreme" "brutal". Often I see these adjectives and then there's a mediocre hand spanking that barely leaves any mark. Or a more severe implement is used but the spanker obviously holds back a lot. A prime example would be ATP - if someone gave such a high number of belt lashes and those lashes were serious, the girl's backside would be black and blue by the end. Instead they often just drop the belt on the bottom, which is barely marked even after more than 100 lashes. If one isn't prepared to use a severe implement, or the spankee can't take it, then don't use it. Period.
5. It ties up to the first point, but a 40+ woman playing the part of a teen girl... I mean: come on! There are plenty of examples of girls well over 20 who could play that part very well (Brandi, Jessica, so many others from RSN or Lupus, GBS etc.), and there are other types of scenes that a mature woman can play.
6. Similarly: spankings that are too mild. I know that a vast majority are fans of bare hand OTK spankings, but I'm not one. To me it's not believable. We're not talking about toddlers or pre-teens (I hope!!!), and in my mind hand spankings over the knee given to anyone older than that is just ridiculous. Please don't come explaining to me that you spank so hard and she cries and the butt is red, I know all that shit, I've been lectured about it by many people on many similar forums, but I also have experiences, sad and traumatic ones from my childhood and my idea of a serious spanking is informed by those events.
7. Slow, ceremonial and measured spankings. As I said above, my likes and dislikes, my notions of what is realistic are defined by my experiences and according to those spankings are a lot less ritualized, formalized, there's no waiting and walking around and stupid blah blah blah between each swat or lash. Whenever I see that I lose patience, I stop watching the video.
8. Paddles. I know that in America they are a very common tool, but I live in a different part of the world and to me the idea of someone buying or making, keeping such an artificial object is just weird, it doesn't feel natural to me. Also, I very much dislike the idea of a big stiff board being used (and yes, I know that lexan is different, but not different enough to me, not to mention that it's even more artificial than wood).
9. That bloke from the Russian Slaves (and related) videos. He's creepy AF.
10. Miss Sultrybelle... I can't stand her theatrics and stances.

 

[TruBlu]

Totally with you on the Bloke from the Russian slaves and Sultrybelle. She hands out some great thrashings but she's IMHO so weird that its a real turn off

 

[zizo]

Models with extensive tatoos

 

[Countofmontespanko2]

Oh... where do I even begin...?
1. Anything unrealistic. Bad story lines, preposterous positions, bad acting, bad dialogue.
2. Inconsistencies. If the idea is that it'll be a disciplinary spanking (especially if it's a parental scene), then for fuck's sake don't end up grabbing her ass, fondling her or zooming on her vagina!
3. Combining spanking with other activities. I'm a purist, so other aspects of BDSM leave me cold, some of them disgust me.
4. Fake spankings and those that are too mild but are advertised as "severe", "extreme" "brutal". Often I see these adjectives and then there's a mediocre hand spanking that barely leaves any mark. Or a more severe implement is used but the spanker obviously holds back a lot. A prime example would be ATP - if someone gave such a high number of belt lashes and those lashes were serious, the girl's backside would be black and blue by the end. Instead they often just drop the belt on the bottom, which is barely marked even after more than 100 lashes. If one isn't prepared to use a severe implement, or the spankee can't take it, then don't use it. Period.
5. It ties up to the first point, but a 40+ woman playing the part of a teen girl... I mean: come on! There are plenty of examples of girls well over 20 who could play that part very well (Brandi, Jessica, so many others from RSN or Lupus, GBS etc.), and there are other types of scenes that a mature woman can play.
6. Similarly: spankings that are too mild. I know that a vast majority are fans of bare hand OTK spankings, but I'm not one. To me it's not believable. We're not talking about toddlers or pre-teens (I hope!!!), and in my mind hand spankings over the knee given to anyone older than that is just ridiculous. Please don't come explaining to me that you spank so hard and she cries and the butt is red, I know all that shit, I've been lectured about it by many people on many similar forums, but I also have experiences, sad and traumatic ones from my childhood and my idea of a serious spanking is informed by those events.
7. Slow, ceremonial and measured spankings. As I said above, my likes and dislikes, my notions of what is realistic are defined by my experiences and according to those spankings are a lot less ritualized, formalized, there's no waiting and walking around and stupid blah blah blah between each swat or lash. Whenever I see that I lose patience, I stop watching the video.
8. Paddles. I know that in America they are a very common tool, but I live in a different part of the world and to me the idea of someone buying or making, keeping such an artificial object is just weird, it doesn't feel natural to me. Also, I very much dislike the idea of a big stiff board being used (and yes, I know that lexan is different, but not different enough to me, not to mention that it's even more artificial than wood).
9. That bloke from the Russian Slaves (and related) videos. He's creepy AF.
10. Miss Sultrybelle... I can't stand her theatrics and stances.

100% the over talking and hypersexualization is disgusting.

 

[Countofmontespanko2]

If they'd keep it simple. No need to see the infractions from start to finish. Make it believable. No nudity. Over the clothes or panties is fine. Don't be excessive. No fondling. And shut up.

 

[barry33]

Models that will not take their clothes off.

 

[MrGripe]

Hairy toes.

 

[STC877]

theradion list is more or less mine, would like to add that blood from spanking is not my cup of tea.

 

[HansCoke]

People who spend forever yapping on during a spanking.

Yes, a good storyline makes for a good video but people like Kyle Johnson spends like 60-70% of the video just talking and lecturing.

 

[Leo68]

OK this is probably personal to me but the guys accent on GBS has always totally killed anything on there for me.

 

[Tomspanks]

Personal dislikes
1. Bad spanking technique - the spanker cupping their hand to make the spanking sound louder inferring that it's harder. Faking it in other words.
2. Old school pomposity "I shall spank you now"
3. Spanking glamor is a tragedy. Some of the most beautiful models of any site. The worst filming, colour grading, poor camera angles, weak spanking, usually a jump cut from pants up to pants down (I want to see them being lowered) and ..
5. Underwear not fully lowered. I want underwear mid thighs, knees, ankles or off but we occasionally see them still on or just below cheeks
6. 50 year olds in school uniform
7. 1 minute long spankings filmed from 4 angles then edited into a 4 minute long scene. I've no issue with multiple angles but the effectiveness and duration of the spanking shouldnt be compromised.
8. Kyles waffle. I don't actualy mind it so long as it's not mid spanking. I need to be able to fast forward it!
9. Unbelievable plots
10. Over use of the term "real" - sure if if someone is spanked then its real in the sense that its not cgi but its not real in the sense that the spankee is reluctant. I dont need it to be nonconsensual but I like to believe that they are least reluctant. (Even when I know they aren't) This is why ravenhills resolved series worked well for me, the idea that the spankee would reluctantly agree to a spanking to escape something worse that they brought on themselves feels real enough, certainly more real than 50 year old schoolgirl forgetting her homework and being spanked by her husband in their kitchen.

 

[TruBlu]

Personal dislikes
1. Bad spanking technique - the spanker cupping their hand to make the spanking sound louder inferring that it's harder. Faking it in other words.
2. Old school pomposity "I shall spank you now"
3. Spanking glamor is a tragedy. Some of the most beautiful models of any site. The worst filming, colour grading, poor camera angles, weak spanking, usually a jump cut from pants up to pants down (I want to see them being lowered) and ..
5. Underwear not fully lowered. I want underwear mid thighs, knees, ankles or off but we occasionally see them still on or just below cheeks
6. 50 year olds in school uniform
7. 1 minute long spankings filmed from 4 angles then edited into a 4 minute long scene. I've no issue with multiple angles but the effectiveness and duration of the spanking shouldnt be compromised.
8. Kyles waffle. I don't actualy mind it so long as it's not mid spanking. I need to be able to fast forward it!
9. Unbelievable plots
10. Over use of the term "real" - sure if if someone is spanked then its real in the sense that its not cgi but its not real in the sense that the spankee is reluctant. I dont need it to be nonconsensual but I like to believe that they are least reluctant. (Even when I know they aren't) This is why ravenhills resolved series worked well for me, the idea that the spankee would reluctantly agree to a spanking to escape something worse that they brought on themselves feels real enough, certainly more real than 50 year old schoolgirl forgetting her homework and being spanked by her husband in their kitchen.

agree with all of that!!

 

[talar]

And Now . . . Something completely different . . . or is it ?

. . .
Also, I've downloaded, who knows, hundreds of thousands of videos in my lifetime, and haven't watched even one percent of those I would say, so there could be a lot of stuff on my hard disk which I downloaded and hoped would be good, but when I actually get to watch it is terrible, or at least a disappointment.
. . .

I have a BestOf collection, I keep a video if I think
it is good enough to watch again, which then seldom
happens for there is always new stuff that needs my
attention. So, as I see it now, the only real purpose
of my collection is to fulfill requests.
Often there are requesters who just bump and bump their
requests and I could reply there that I remember the
videos they want are just deadly boring and that maybe
the reason nobody has them, but you are always telling
us that "We all have our personal likes and dislikes and
much like all things it is a matter of taste.", so I say
nothing though I should.

Many generous uploaders share a lot, like Trollheart,
knowing that most of it is total boredom to them but
hoping others, having different taste, might like it.
Some even say that after the upload they delete these
videos so they cannot reply to a re-up request.

All in all, when we share only what we like, then our
personal likes (and dislikes too, the topic here) are
plain to see.

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[Whiteknight63]

The 3 big B's

• Big Butt
• Big Boobs
• Big Belly

Talking during the spanking
Love-taps
No reactions
Unrealism
Spanking to to short (I am talking to you Realspankings)
spanking on feet or breasts or back
Sex (BJ's or ok)
Kyle
Anything that has to do with the butt hole
Putting down or degradding (including writing "slut" on them)

 

[theradion]

As you folks are adding things here, I'm also reminded things and my list goes longer. - and implicitly the list of the videos that I like sadly shorter.
I also dislike a lot anything that has to do with feet or butthole. Not a big fan of hitting the breasts either and I absolutely HATE it when they hit the genitals.
For the same reason I'm not a fan of spankings with any kind of footwear. It just reminds me too much of feet
Degrading and writing on the body... yeah, that's a big one, and if they spit or urinate that crosses the "Imma puke" line with me.
Love taps... absolutely. In my case that extends to any kind of spanking with bare hand. I'm sorry, I might be more of a sadist than most, but to me that\s just booooooooring.... I need some real severe pain, marks and genuine reaction.
Underwear just under the butt cheeks... to me a real spanking involves at least the top of the thighs too. A big one here is drop seat pants... I mean: how artificial can you get?
Talking is bad but it gets even worse when they add stupid costumes.
The British are particularly guilty of this: there's a woman in her 40's (or older) playing a schoolgirl in pigtails and uniform, and an old fart in toga and cap taking 20 minutes to give her 6 cane strokes while repeating with the worst acting voice possible, 30 times "naughty girl".
Overreacting... I know that pain threshold can be very different from person to person, but when she's getting a mild or mediocre spanking and she's writhing, kicking, screaming like a banshee... no Oscar there I'm sorry.
One that nobody mentioned: switching implements during the spanking. It's not a big deal for me, but it also doesn't feel realistic.
It's especially bad when certain things are repetitive. Universal for example almost always starts with the hand and ends it with the paddle, other implements being sandwiched between those.
Enema, diapers, butt plugs, mouth soaping, making her stand with her hands on her head so the spanker can stare at her vagina while "lecturing" her... ugh...
Contorted unnatural and wildly uncomfortable positions, restraints that belong in a bondage scene.
Also not mentioned: not showing the girl's face. I know that many girls are not OK with their face being visible, but to me there goes half the magic.
Speaking of implements: everything that looks as if it came from a sex shop. Latex, toy whips, anything pink or violet or red... also ball gags, restraints that come from a BDSM store.
Positions that result in the bottom sticking out unnaturally. Some people say that when the skin is stretched like that it's more painful, but to me it's just unnatural.
Speaking of positions - and this is a very big one - interrupting the spanking all the time to rearrange the girl with millimetric precision in her position. Every time she moves, her body twitches (which is pretty much after every lash or swat), the spanker stops and puts her back EXACTLY like before, with her bottom sticking out the same exact way
I also dislike some of the tools that are used so frequently in Asian videos. It's probably common there, but to me spanking with a shoehorn is just weird.

 

[Mke640]

Oh... where do I even begin...?
1. Anything unrealistic. Bad story lines, preposterous positions, bad acting, bad dialogue.
2. Inconsistencies. If the idea is that it'll be a disciplinary spanking (especially if it's a parental scene), then for fuck's sake don't end up grabbing her ass, fondling her or zooming on her vagina!
3. Combining spanking with other activities. I'm a purist, so other aspects of BDSM leave me cold, some of them disgust me.
4. Fake spankings and those that are too mild but are advertised as "severe", "extreme" "brutal". Often I see these adjectives and then there's a mediocre hand spanking that barely leaves any mark. Or a more severe implement is used but the spanker obviously holds back a lot. A prime example would be ATP - if someone gave such a high number of belt lashes and those lashes were serious, the girl's backside would be black and blue by the end. Instead they often just drop the belt on the bottom, which is barely marked even after more than 100 lashes. If one isn't prepared to use a severe implement, or the spankee can't take it, then don't use it. Period.
5. It ties up to the first point, but a 40+ woman playing the part of a teen girl... I mean: come on! There are plenty of examples of girls well over 20 who could play that part very well (Brandi, Jessica, so many others from RSN or Lupus, GBS etc.), and there are other types of scenes that a mature woman can play.
6. Similarly: spankings that are too mild. I know that a vast majority are fans of bare hand OTK spankings, but I'm not one. To me it's not believable. We're not talking about toddlers or pre-teens (I hope!!!), and in my mind hand spankings over the knee given to anyone older than that is just ridiculous. Please don't come explaining to me that you spank so hard and she cries and the butt is red, I know all that shit, I've been lectured about it by many people on many similar forums, but I also have experiences, sad and traumatic ones from my childhood and my idea of a serious spanking is informed by those events.
7. Slow, ceremonial and measured spankings. As I said above, my likes and dislikes, my notions of what is realistic are defined by my experiences and according to those spankings are a lot less ritualized, formalized, there's no waiting and walking around and stupid blah blah blah between each swat or lash. Whenever I see that I lose patience, I stop watching the video.
8. Paddles. I know that in America they are a very common tool, but I live in a different part of the world and to me the idea of someone buying or making, keeping such an artificial object is just weird, it doesn't feel natural to me. Also, I very much dislike the idea of a big stiff board being used (and yes, I know that lexan is different, but not different enough to me, not to mention that it's even more artificial than wood).
9. That bloke from the Russian Slaves (and related) videos. He's creepy AF.
10. Miss Sultrybelle... I can't stand her theatrics and stances.

Right on! All of that! Thats why I now try and do commissions. Which can be a whole other bag of sh1t.

 

[Isambard]

A lot of my pet dislikes here already.
One pet peeve of mine is the totally ridiculous uniform. I have no problem with old-fashioned nurse/police/military uniforms with a skirt, although trousers are now pretty much standard for nurses, policewomen and female members of the armed forces, but the ludicrous short skirt exposing the stocking tops even when the woman is standing or the latex "sexy nurse/copper/soldier" really gets my goat.

 

[Jeansspanker]

Bitte entschuldigt mein weniger als perfektes Englisch.
Ich liebe es, wenn ein Spanking über Levis enge Jeans beginnt, wobei die Lehrerin die Jeans aufknöpft und herunterzieht, bevor sie ihr den nackten Po versohlt.
Authentische Szenen mit intensivem Schmerz sind mir wichtig.

Was mir nicht gefällt, überschneidet sich größtenteils mit dem, was bisher beschrieben wurde:
1. Zu leichte Klapse
2. Zu kurze Prügelstrafe
3. Übermäßiges Winseln nach ein paar leichten oder mittleren Schlägen
4. Schulmädchenuniformen oder andere Kostüme
5. Da ich gerne echte Tränen sehe: Wenn man das Gesicht des Spankees nicht sieht oder keine Tränen fließen
6. Die Verbindung zwischen Spanking und Sex
7. Zu viel Dialog, besonders beim Spanking
8. Videos, in denen der nackte Po sofort geschlagen wird

 

[Jzsman]

1. Very far wide camera angles
I prefer close up shots where I can really see the marks and impact of the spanking along with facial reactions and tears
2. Bad audio
occasionally there's a video that has audio that is out of sync and usually I dont mind because I can fix it myself but some are very bad. And I wont name what studio but there's a specific studio that actually has very high quality videos that are actually decent spankings but the audio sounds like it was recorded in a bathroom by a cellphone tucked in his pocket and it takes me out of the video sometimes
3. Very slow spankings advertising as Severe or Extreme
the preview with show maybe 2 seconds of a spanking that seems a little fast but then you purchase the full clip and it's 8 minutes of slow average smacks and overreactions to the hits then about 3 seconds where the spanking finally picks up the pace then it's over
4. Bad outfits/Costumes
also not too much of a fan of costumes always being slutty or looking like cheap Halloween store outfits
would prefer just more casual outfits to make it more believable
5. Awful spanking technique
this one is a bit of a personal preference but I hate when the spanker has the spankee otk and spanks with the opposite hand or starts using both hands at the same time
Even worse I hate when a video is advertised to have a severe belt scene and it's a slow paced spanking scene where the spanker cant even hold or swing it properly. Or they make the spankee lay on their tummy while the spanker lazily holds the belt/strap above them and just lets it fall down on them. So boring